Chapter 41: Write the Letter While You Still Can

Core intervention to restore agency before silence turns damage structural.

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Purpose

Restore partner agency before silence causes irreversible damage.

Doctrine Applied

Honesty outranks outcome.

User-Facing Copy

If you are waiting for certainty, you are already erasing consent.

Trigger Conditions

Avoidance of a necessary conversation
Intimacy strain
Fear that honesty will change the outcome
Withholding information to “protect” the relationship

Next Action

Complete the full exercise: Write the Letter While You Still Can — Full Exercise