TruAlign

How to Use TruAlign

"Triage first. Skills second. Clarity always."

Why TruAlign

Effort can’t compensate for lack of capacity.

I built TruAlign because I waited too long. When I was ready for help the advice I needed wasn’t available. Gurus sold tactics, not growth. Continued self-delusion vs self-analysis. TruAlign is here to help you open your eyes early and quickly. Maybe the relationship can be healed, maybe it can't. It's not about tactics to win over the other person, it's about taking the blinders off and helping you grow.

Silence and dishonesty are the poisonous earth upon which love will wither and die.

1

Start with the Reality Check

Before you try to "fix" anything, you need to know if the patient is stable. Use the Reality Check to get a private snapshot before you take action.

Take the Relationship Reality Check →
2

Check for Contempt

Contempt is the single biggest predictor of divorce. It destroys the immune system of a relationship. If you see eye-rolling, mockery, or name-calling, you must address this before any other skills will work.

Open Contempt Checker →
3

Choose Your Path

Based on your triage results, you will enter one of three paths:

Chapters

For stable relationships needing insight and maintenance.

Better Partner

A rigorous 90-day program to rebuild skills and trust.

Relationship 911

Clinically-informed crisis evaluation with 150+ questions across 12 domains.