TruAlign

Welcome to the TruAlign Journey

You do not start at the beginning. You start where you are.

This path helps you see clearly - before deciding what comes next.

Begin

Journey

Which statement best describes where you are right now?

Pulse recommends: Analysis
Toggle faith-compatible language if that fits your context.

Analysis

I need clarity on what is happening before I decide what to do.

Growth

We want to repair and grow, and I am ready to work on change.

Recovery

I am stabilizing after loss and rebuilding my life forward.

Analysis

Current

See what actually happened.

This phase looks at:

  • - what you avoided
  • - where honesty broke down

Start Analysis

Stabilize, assess patterns, and establish clarity before committing to repair.

Who this phase is for

People who need clarity before deciding on repair or release.

Core questions

  • What patterns are repeating?
  • Where am I avoiding truth?
  • Is repair safe and possible?

Active tools

Pulse
Integrity Checker
Contempt Checker
Better Partner (pattern)

Blocked tools

Marriage CheckerRequires confirmed commitment to avoid false hope.
Repair FramingDisabled to prevent premature repair framing.
Sexual Health CheckerBlocked to keep focus aligned.

Warnings

Avoid premature repair when contempt or safety issues are present.

Recommended chapters

Before You Decide Anything
Avoidance & Silence
Love Without Compatibility
Why We Repeat the Same Relationship

Growth

Change, not intention.

This phase asks:

  • - what must change
  • - whether it is mutual
  • - Hope is not a plan.

Enter Growth

Build repair skills, map change commitments, and practice consistent follow-through.

Who this phase is for

People committed to change and repair with clear boundaries.

Core questions

  • What observable change proves integrity?
  • What repair actions are consistent over time?
  • Are we building capacity, not just effort?

Active tools

Pulse (change-readiness)
Integrity Checker
Better Partner (change-mapping)
Sexual Health Checker

Blocked tools

Contempt CheckerNot used once recovery begins; focus shifts forward.
Repair FramingDisabled to prevent premature repair framing.

Warnings

Growth without integrity signals tends to collapse.

Recommended chapters

Write the Letter While You Still Can
What Actually Changes Someone's Mind
Sexual Health - Caring for the Body, Protecting the Bond
Rebuilding Attraction With Dignity

Recovery

Completion, not failure.

This phase helps you:

  • - let go
  • - learn forward
  • - You do not repeat what you understand.

Begin Recovery

Stabilize forward, rebuild identity, and integrate lessons without re-entering repair.

Who this phase is for

People stabilizing after separation or choosing forward integrity.

Core questions

  • What am I letting go of?
  • What future standard am I protecting?
  • How do I rebuild without re-entering repair?

Active tools

Pulse (stabilization)
Integrity Checker (narrative-cleanup)
Better Partner (future)
Sexual Health Checker (personal)

Blocked tools

Marriage CheckerRequires confirmed commitment to avoid false hope.
Contempt CheckerNot used once recovery begins; focus shifts forward.
Repair FramingDisabled to prevent premature repair framing.

Warnings

Recovery does not loop back into repair without a new baseline.

Recommended chapters

Letting Go Without Erasing Love
Closure Is Often a Myth
What This Teaches You (If You Let It)
Relationship Literacy: The Skill

Decision gate: Analysis → Growth

Move only when integrity signals are present and stabilization holds.

Decision gate: Growth → Recovery

Move when change is consistent and the next step is forward integration.