The Relationship Pulse is not meant to be used constantly.
It's not a tracker for anxiety.
It's not a score you chase.
And it's not something you check every time emotions spike.
It's a periodic check-in, designed to bring clarity at moments when perspective is most likely to be distorted.
Use the Pulse when you're at a decision point, not an emotional peak.
Good times to use it:
The Pulse is designed to slow things down and surface patterns that are hard to see from inside the experience.
Don't use it:
If you find yourself wanting to retake it repeatedly, that's usually a signal to pause — not to gather more information.
Clarity doesn't come from repetition.
It comes from integration.
Plus users (one-time clarity):
Pro users (active growth phases):
Lifetime users:
The goal is not to eliminate emotion — it's to understand how emotion is shaping your choices.
The Pulse does not tell you what to do.
It helps you see:
It gives you signal — not answers.
Because answers given too early often keep people stuck longer.
If you're calm, stable, and not desperate — and the Pulse still helps you see more clearly — then it's doing exactly what it was built to do.
This isn't a crisis tool.
It's a relationship literacy tool.
Use it to understand.
Use it to choose.
Use it to avoid repeating what no longer serves you.